Hot Wedding Favor Combo : Sparklers & Matches

wedding sparklers with personalized matches from The Wedding Outlet
Wedding sparklers will light up your wedding reception, ceremony or special event. Have guests light these hand-held sparklers to make a special photo op or give you a grand entrance or exit from either your ceremony or reception. You can even fill a jar with sparklers and have a sign displayed asking guests to take one and instructions on when to use. Consider leaving a basket of personalized matches out for guests to light them. It's a great way to add a personalized touch.

Calling All Brides and Grooms : Announce Your Engagement

Something new and exciting is launching on the blog today. First off, I want to send HUGE congratulations to my happy couples that are planning their wedding and getting ready to celebrate their love to one another. Secondly, I want to let you know that you can now share your exciting news with everyone, right here, on the blog. Under the "I'm Engaged" section, there's now a place to keep track of all the upcoming weddings and we will be able to say cheers to you all virtually as your BIG DAY approaches. Simply complete this form and you're on your way to sharing the wonderful news. {oh, and if you supply me with your mailing address, you might just receive a little something via snail mail from either myself or some of my many sponsors}

above is a favorite photo from a recent engagement session photographed by Shannon Lee Images - the lighting is amazing!!!

Custom Wedding Cake Toppers that resemble the couple

trending custom cake toppers from The Wedding Outlet
Looking for custom cake toppers that resemble you as a couple? The Wedding Outlet's Custom Wedding Cake Toppers can be created to look just like you and your spouse. Custom cake toppers can be customized according to your hair color and/or skin color. Create a one of kind custom wedding cake topper that will be a keepsake for years to come.

The bride and groom {on the top right of above image} are poised for a "Picture Perfect" portrait. Complement your cake with this sweet hand painted porcelain Picture Perfect Couple Custom Cake Topper.

The couple on the cake topper {seen 2nd down on the right} will complement your romantic beach setting showing the Romantic Couple Lounging on Beach. Beautifully crafted with details right down to the heart drawn in the sand with her delicate finger.

The 3rd sweet cake top photo depicts the laid-back bride and groom sneaking a kiss with the look of love. Place the groom atop a layer of the wedding cake and let him embrace his bride and she dangles her legs over the edge.

The True Romance Cake Top {4th image} can be used for either a traditional or modern wedding. The hand painted porcelain couple are "completely in love" and it shows. A great keepsake for the couple.
custom wedding cake toppers that resemble the couple | from The Wedding Outlet
left: This To Have and to Hold Cake Top puts a modern twist on the phrase. Proves that love can make all things possible.

middle: My Main Squeeze Cheeky Couple shows the couple giving each other a playful "squeeze" that is obscured from the front view.

right: On bended knee, this groom expresses how much he loves his beautiful bride. Stunning and elegant, this cake topper is perfect for the romantics! A true Cinderella Moment.

Black and Grey Wedding Cakes - dramatic yet oh so elegant

Before I get into today's first post I have to share something with you. I am beyond excited about it as it required some programming in the backend and I was able to get it working all on my own. Ready??? You can now easily pin any of the blog images you see with one click - if you mouse over any image, you will see a Pinterest "P" pop up in the lower right corner - simply click that and you are on your way to pinning away anything you wish. LOVE IT!!!!

Now, onto today's first post which features some pretty darn amazing black and grey wedding cakes. This color combo has been popping up in my pinterest feed for the past couple of weeks now, so I had to share them with you. Which ones are your favorites? Would you serve a cake like this at your wedding? I love how some of the darker ones can be super dramatic - yet they are each so elegant. The only downside is that I've heard black is one of the frosting colors that is a bit "stain like" on lips and teeth. I've never had a cake like this, so I can't say for certain other than that I wouldn't mind giving them a taste test. You can see many more wedding cakes here.

black and grey wedding cakes

Top 4 Mason Jar Ideas for Weddings {and they're personalized}

Mason Jars are still a hot item for weddings and now that summer weddings are approaching - you will love these ideas from Daisy Days for incorporating mason jars into your wedding.
personalized mason jars - makes fun "rustic" toasting flutes and beautiful vases | from Daisy Days
The Mr. & Mrs. 26oz. Ball Mason Jar Set lets you go rustic with your toasting flutes. And, then after the wedding, you can celebrate your new status as Mr. and Mrs. on hot summer days {or year round actually}.

The Personalized Mason Jar Style Toasting Flutes are a great way to put a spin on tradition with an at home flair. These mason jars feature a handle and can be personalized with one letter. You might even want to order additional jars as gifts for the entire wedding party.

The Personalized Mason Jar Vase Collection comes as a set of 4 and are ideal for decorating wedding reception tables and then you can take them home to decorate your fireplace mantle with.

These Personalized 16oz. Mason Jars are a great addition to everyone's barware collection and come in sets of 4. The perfect compliment to every type of refreshing drink from lemonade to iced tea to cola. They're also dishwasher safe so they'll be enjoyed for many years.

Wedding Shoes for Summer : from Bridal Heels to Ballet Flats and Sandals

Today I have a round-up of some of the latest styles in bridal shoes for the upcoming summer wedding season - from high heels that are handmade with lots of bling to sandals {for both her and him} that are perfect for beach weddings and again on the honeymoon.

handmade crystal embellished wedding shoes from www.tiffanychimere.com

handmade crystal embellished wedding shoes from www.tiffanychimere.com

handmade crystal embellished ballet wedding flats from www.tiffanychimere.com

handmade crystal embellished ballet wedding flats from www.tiffanychimere.com

Tiffany Chimere's Bridal Shoe Collection features shoes that are handmade with rhinestones, pearls and/or charms. Each handmade shoe takes a minimum of 10 hours to complete and prices start at $170.

strappy wedding sandals with bling from Shop Zoey

strappy wedding sandals with bling from Shop Zoey

strappy colorful wedding sandals from Shop Zoey

strappy colorful wedding sandals from Shop Zoey

Whether it's a splash of color or a touch of bling you're looking for in your strappy summer sandals, ShopZoey.com is your “go-to” destination for special occasion footwear and accessories.

summer wedding shoes from The Dessy Group

summer wedding shoes from The Dessy Group

Pom Pom and Flower Trimmed Bridesmaid and Bridal Flip Flops from The Dessy Group are so much fun - they feature a removable crinkle chiffon pom pom flower that can be ordered to either match or contrast with the sandal color of your choice. There are so many color possibilities! And, for the guys this summer, there's the stylish Men's Destination Flip Flop. The Pleated Satin Ballet Flat come in your choice of 12 colors including bridal white, ivory and the most popular bridesmaid colors. You can even pair the ballet flat with fun shoe clips.

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Lolo Event Design Shares Top Tips for Stress Free Wedding Planning . . . plus, a gorgeous backyard fall wedding

I have a special treat to start your week with today. Boston-based event planner, Lo McShay, of LoLo Event Design, has created her top tips for stress free wedding planning and is here to share them with you. And, she's also sharing a gorgeous backyard wedding that I know you will love. Just think . . . fire pit and s'mores to end the night with . . . yum!

Winter is finally over and that means engagement season has ended and wedding season is here. Newly engaged couples have undoubtedly stocked up on the prerequisite wedding magazines and have a newfound appreciation for the serious condition that is Pinterest addiction. To help make sense of it all, Lo McShay, founder of LoLo Event Design, a premier entertainment specialist company based in Boston, shares her top tips for a stress-free wedding planning process:  

The venue search: 
Your wedding planning ultimately starts with the venue because the venue selection is the biggest decision of the wedding planning process (a couple’s combined venue and food & beverage costs reflect on average 46% of their total budget). The venue search can be daunting but Lo McShay tries to remind couples that there’s no such thing as a "perfect" venue; the key is finding the venue that’s "perfect for you."  By prioritizing your wish list and asking the right questions, it’s possible to find your perfect venue. To help couples with their search process, McShay has compiled a list of must-ask questions in this venue questions check list. Getting the answers to these questions will aid in ensuring you stay on budget, while also ensuring your venue fits your wants and needs. 

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And, now before Lo shares more of her wedding planning tips with you, I just have to show you this backyard fall wedding - I'm totally in love with it. The couple wanted to create a comfortable and tranquil atmosphere for their wedding guests. The wedding took place at the home of the bride's aunt {a place where Erin, the bride, holds fond childhood and family memories}. Along with the location, the entire wedding incorporated their family. Their officiant was the groom's brother and instead of bridesmaids and groomsmen standing by the couple - their families stood by them. The relaxed backyard vibe was carried out thru the use of picnic blankets on the grass for the cocktail hour and there was even a fire pit for late-night marshmallows and s'mores. There was also seasonal décor that included pumpkins, gourds, cornstalks, mums and natural wood to complement the autumn wedding.

And, now back to the wedding planning tips to make your day stress-free . . .

Design your wedding around YOU: 
Striving to make every event truly unique, Lo McShay emphasizes to couples that their wedding is the first time they're hosting their family and closest friends as a couple, so the principles they apply to their everyday lives should translate into their wedding. McShay starts the design process with a laundry list of questions for her clients and does not stop until their vision is brought to life. "When I first engage with a couple I try to unearth what exactly makes them tick, what makes them unique," says McShay. “I ask questions such as, how did you meet, what do you like to do on a Friday night and where did you spend your childhood summers? From there we develop high-level story boards with interior design and fashion imagery to nail their personal aesthetic.” These answers fuel the event design process and truly make the wedding unique to the particular couple.

The event timeline: 
The biggest piece of advice for clients and what LoLo Event Design spends a lot of time organizing is the event timeline. McShay’s timelines are typically upwards of 10 pages long and include all drop-off/set-up details and key points throughout the night. The timeline may go off course a few minutes here and there, but it’s key to have a plan and to have someone who’s going to help you stick to that plan. McShay always suggests keeping your guests in mind, thinking through each transition and keeping a few surprises for the end of the night to keep spirits high. “When it comes to the end of the night, you’re exhausted and your guests are too, so we suggest having your bartenders serve guests espresso and tequila shots on the dance floor. No one has to wait in line, everyone can keep dancing and this will ensure you get the most out of the last hour at your reception.”

Keep your guests relaxed: 
To really make your guests feel welcome and that they’re special enough in your life to be invited to your big day, the key is making them comfortable. McShay suggests having cocktails ready for them as soon as they walk into the event. Whether it’s a signature drink or lemonade before the ceremony, it’s these little touches that really make your guests feel comfortable and welcome. The more relaxed your guests, the more fun they’ll have and ultimately the more fun you’ll have.

LoLo Event Design is a full service event consultation and design firm offering imaginative entertaining opportunities for discerning clients throughout New England. Ms. McShay – considered one of area’s premier entertainment specialists – is known for signature hand-crafted details and her ability to transform spaces with a custom twist. Whether it’s styling for a photo shoot, a fundraiser for the Guidance Center at the Charles Hotel, a wedding at the Chatham Bars Inn, an intimate New Years’ Eve party at Battery Wharf, or a small private dinner party for two at home, LoLo Event Design custom tailors each and every event.  For more inspiring ideas or information, visit www.loloeventdesign.com or call (617) 838-5921.

Vendor Credits for Wedding:
Kelly Benvenuto Photography, Jules Catering, Peterson Party Center, Party Designs, New England Country Rentals, Wedding Flowers by Annette, Beaunita Bakery, Shear Illusions Hair Studio and Spa, Wedding Paper Divas, Ellas Paper, Berklee School of Music, Groove Entertainment.